“Fitting in feels like work”: Autistic students still struggling in schools

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School’s meant to be where you find your feet. But for many autistic students, it remains a daily obstacle course—socially, emotionally, and academically. New research from the University of South Australia, in collaboration with Flinders University, puts the spotlight firmly on the reality faced by autistic children in Australian schools. And it doesn’t paint a comforting picture.

The study brings together the experiences of 225 autistic students aged between 10 and 14 and lets their words do the heavy lifting. The takeaway is clear: despite years of campaigns, policy reviews and awareness drives, inclusion in classrooms remains elusive. It’s not about raising awareness anymore—it’s about listening and acting.

Students in the study described school as a place where they constantly felt the need to adapt—not in the good way. Fitting in, coping with noise, navigating friendships, and dealing with misunderstanding from both peers and staff left many exhausted, isolated or anxious. For some, masking their autism became the only strategy for survival.

Lead researcher Dr Kobie Boshoff, from UniSA, says the time has come to move from good intentions to tangible change. “Autistic students’ school experiences are often marred by being poorly understood, high levels of bullying, interpersonal difficulties, and academic struggles, all of which impact their mental health into adulthood,” she says.

According to Dr Boshoff, schools need to do three things well—build positive relationships, create learning environments that actually work for autistic students, and design physical spaces that aren’t overwhelming. Sounds simple on paper. But for too many schools, it’s yet to become a reality.

The research makes one point repeatedly: friendship matters. Peer relationships were described as a make-or-break factor. “Positive relationships with peers are vital, yet many autistic students find it hard to make friends,” Dr Boshoff explains. “As friendships foster a sense of belonging, schools must prioritise social inclusion alongside academic success.”

When students feel genuinely seen and respected by teachers, something shifts. It’s not always about the big gestures—sometimes, it’s a teacher explaining something a different way, offering a quiet space to regroup, or simply making sure the student feels safe. Teachers who show flexibility and empathy can, quite literally, change a child’s life.

But the physical environment plays just as much of a role. Busy corridors, loud bells, unpredictable schedules—these are part of everyday school life, but for autistic students, they can be deeply unsettling. Sensory overload is real. And it wears down a child’s ability to participate or even attend school.

The research couldn’t come at a more timely moment. This year, the Australian Government launched its first National Autism Strategy with a $42.3 million commitment through to 2031. In South Australia, a state government pilot is rolling out autism inclusion teachers in nine public high schools. It’s a start. But no one’s pretending it’s enough.

Dr Boshoff is cautious about applauding what are still early steps. Her concern is that support fades too early. “There’s a growing trend of assuming that older students require less support, when in reality, they just need different support,” she says.

Her warning comes with a call to action: every autistic student deserves the chance to thrive in school. That means money. It means training. It means proper professional development for staff. And it means schools need to stop thinking of support as a short-term intervention and start building long-term, inclusive frameworks.

Autistic students don’t need fixing. They need schools to stop acting like inclusion is a favour. They need teachers who listen, peers who understand, and classrooms that don’t feel like an assault on the senses.

The new research doesn’t just point out what’s going wrong. It shows what can be done. Tailored learning strategies, sensory-friendly environments, better-trained staff, and a whole lot more empathy—all of this can shift the dial. But only if the education system stops ticking boxes and starts listening to the actual voices of autistic children.

And those voices are saying: school shouldn’t feel this hard.


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