1’s lonely, 2’s company and 3’s a party

By Deepak Sagar
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A shout out to crazy friends who always come in packs of three

Have you ever been partial to the crazy friends? The ones who push the envelope, do adventurous things and live carefree.

To some, being “crazy” is always a compliment. It means you are wild, free-spirited, unpredictable, yet non-destructive. The depths of your mind and personality are more far-reaching than other “normal” people. You aren’t like anyone else. You hold your own personal excitement.

Most of us are fortunate to have a large group of crazy girlfriends, all of whom ooze charisma and carry their own story-lines. They are loyal, compassionate and smart. They don’t have bad reputations; on the contrary, many people vie for their friendships.

Whether it is road tripping in a packed minivan on long unplanned trips or staying up to the wee hours an talking a lot all night about nothing, you and your friends somehow always have the most bizarre experiences together

While most are turned off by the idea of having so-called “crazy” friends, some say that the opposite, bother them more. Friends can be all delightfully different, with a vast array of specialties and knowledge and closets. It’s refreshing.

The truth is, in a world that enforces normality and easily rewards its followers, some think all people would benefit from a little bit of crazy in their lives.

It takes us outside of our comfort zone and opens us up to a subtle and exciting array of perspectives. How boring life would be if we didn’t have that outrageous experience or bold companion or ridiculous story?

Crazy friends make the best friends. They’re the ones who stand out, whose shared memories are always two parts fun and one part horrifying.

And yet, for all their craziness, they never fail to make you smile. Because crazy friends always “mean it in the best way possible”. They’ll do it for the goof or for the experience and if they fail, they’re crazy enough to pick themselves up again.

We are all proud to be part of my crazy group of best friends, aren’t we? They are some of the most interesting and wonderful people we might have in our life. And if that seems crazy, well then we’ve come to the right place.

For starters, crazy friends make the best friends, because they will always have the best stories for you!

Whether it is road tripping in a packed minivan on long unplanned trips or staying up to the wee hours an talking a lot all night about nothing, you and your friends somehow always have the most bizarre experiences together.

Others envy your group’s collection of exciting, twisted narratives because you guys have the guts to just go with it, together.

Crazy bunch of friends are comfortable with themselves!

They’re not afraid to expose their vulnerabilities or the rough patches that make them crazy in a negative sense. These friends aren’t embarrassed by themselves or their extreme weirdness. They take pride in their out-of-ordinary personalities. This kind of confidence is infectious—you can be yourself around them in return.

Crazy friends rarely say no to wild ideas. They’ll boldly tap the guy seated at the bar and make themselves look like fools to get his attention for you

They have spunk…!! OMG…!! Tell us about it, you say.

Their multifaceted personalities definitely keep things interesting. You never feel like you have to put on airs for them because they are perfectly content being their own entertainment. It’s a unique and engaging friendship for both parties.

They make you more accepting…

By taking you outside your comfort zone and opening you up to a whole different way of looking at things, your crazy friends make you a more accepting person. You begin to understand that there are many kinds of people in this world with a plethora of opinions. And you come to appreciate the beauty of distinct and peculiar personalities. This is an enriching relationship.

They make you feel sane… insanely sane…!

Let’s be honest, crazy friends also have very nutty problems. When you feel like you’re losing it, you can rely on your friends to make you realise that you actually have it very much together, comparatively speaking.

Sometimes it’s comforting to know that as wacky as you may be, your friends are even kookier.

They are down to try new… crazy things!

Crazy friends rarely say no to wild ideas. They’ll boldly tap the guy seated at the bar and make themselves look like fools to get his attention for you. They’ll shield you from the cops as you publicly urinate. Their rule-breaking is all in good fun. Every outing is an adventure.

They have their own dramas—but no drama with you!

Crazy friends aren’t crazy enough to bring their best friends into the fray. They instead value the fact that they can rely on you to help them and see things from another perspective. They are too busy living their outlandish lifestyles to spend time on pettiness. You are each other’s respite from the overwhelming chaos.

They’ll support your extravagant dreams… even the wasteful ideas…!

When everyone else thinks your hopes of becoming the next late night host are ridiculous, it’s your crazy friends who believe in you. There is neither a goal too lofty nor a dream too distant. They’ll give you the confidence you need to do what scares you. Crazy friends believe in the impossible and aren’t afraid to try to make it possible.

Good friends don’t let you do crazy things…. Alone!!

A big shout out to all the ‘Crazy Bunch of friends’ the world.

 

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